I HATE this. I hate doctors, I hate hospitals - I hate the word kidney. And I am alone. I am not alone in the sense that I have so many people that love me and would take this on for me if they could, but ultimately this is my battle and no one can possibly understand what this is like. I am 28 fucking years old. I don't think at this age I'm supposed to be worried about strokes and heart attacks and kidney failure. I don't think I should know what a grand mal seizure feels like or know the horrors of cerebral spinal fluid leaking down my spine. I don't think I should have to worry about what dialysis would do to my body, my arm, my life. Yes....I am feeling very sorry for myself at the present moment. It's been a rough couple of months - and lupus has just been the tip of the iceberg....the constant and almost comforting source of anxiety among a myriad of unexpected and painful occurrences. Over the past five months so many terrible things have happened, too many too discuss even here in this anonymous forum. I buried my health issues deep inside. I didn't acknowledge it. And with that first denial many others followed. Once you start pretending it is easy to keep going.
I know I can't deny any more. The pretending is over. I made five different doctors appointments yesterday and it was scary but felt good. It felt as if I was taking control back. I wanted to write my first blog entry in a long time because I am just as shocked as anyone that I have avoided my treatment and my doctors for this long. I am intelligent, rational, and understand the implications of not taking my medications and going to the doctor. I have ALWAYS thought that THOSE people that didn't go to the doctor for fear of what the diagnosis or prognosis would be were incredibly stupid....the only thing you are protecting is your own ignorance, nothing else changes. But here I sit, 9 months later, and I AM one of those people. But I won't be anymore. I don't want to live in the dark anymore. I'm gathering strength and support and I'm going to tackle this head on. Anyway, that's all I've got. I hope all out there are well and are doing their best in their own battles.